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Letters for burnout

Burnout does not always announce itself. Sometimes it shows up as not caring about things you used to love, or being unable to start anything, or crying in the car for no reason. Sometimes it is a Sunday-night dread that has stretched into Tuesday afternoon. Sometimes it is the realisation that you have been running on caffeine and adrenaline so long you cannot remember the last time you were not tired. It can come from a job, from caregiving, from parenting an under-five, from medical training, from postpartum, from any role where the demand has been unrelenting and the recovery has not. Letters in this theme are written by people who hit that wall and slowly came out the other side. They are not productivity advice and they are not self-care in the influencer sense. They are recognition that running on empty is real and that it takes real time.

Burnout

You cannot save everyone. I know you know that. I know you know it does not help.

This letter is for the people who are tired in a particular way — tired from caring about something bigger than themselves for a very long time, in a world that is moving in the wrong direction, with not enough hands and too many fronts. The exhaustion of work is one thing. The exhaustion of loving the world while it burns is another, and there is not a good word for it.

You are not letting anyone down by stepping back. The thing you care about does not need a martyr; it needs you alive in five years. Rest is not betrayal. Rest is the only way the thing you are trying to build has anyone left to build it.

Take the week. Take the month if you have it. The work will still be there. So will you, which is the part that matters.

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